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April,
2006
U.S.
Library of Congress ISSN 1549-893X
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1.
Honor Your Dragons
In
my home I have a rubbing I made years ago in the bowels of the magnificent
National Cathedral in Washington, D.C. I'd chosen a textured black
paper for the background, and silver, gold, and bronze crayons for
the relief. I framed it in a deeply carved, gilt frame, and it is
stunning, the whole of it drawing your eye to the story it tells.
The rubbing
is of Saint Margaret, standing tall, head titled slightly down--humble--carrying
her scepter as she walks. At her feet trails a massive dragon carrying
the folds of her dress in its mouth. The story, or at least part
of it, is that Margaret met the devil in the form of a dragon. It
had swallowed her, but she escaped safely.
We've all had
our dragons--a difficult struggle (maybe several) that unfolded
over years, or a swiftly moving catastrophe that left us singed
and scorched. Here's the key question: How do you view your dragon
once the fight is over?
Perhaps your
view resonates with mine: that your dragon probably caused you
to take an even more fulfilling path than the one you were on.
Holding this view is similar to my premise that mistakes are critical--in
fact, essential--to success (Essential Mistakes [March 2006]) and
that difficult situations may actually help rather than hinder you
(Stumbling Blocks to Stepping Stone [July and August 2005]).
If you view
your dragon with bitterness or regret, though, you're still engaged
in the fight. Signs of smoke that even slightly resemble the
dragon remind you of being burned.
But I ask you:
What do you love about your life now?
Can you trace it back to your encounter with the dragon's fiery
breath and how that shaped what you now love? I bet you can and
when you do, you'll begin to behold a beautiful, strong, and powerful
animal that you vanquished, one that's now carrying the folds of
your old clothing as you move forward into life.
Here's to Honoring
Your Dragons,
Beth Hand
© Copyright
2007, Beth Hand.
Beth Hand,
MBA helps leaders increase their effectiveness and satisfaction,
now and for the future. She can be reached at (+1) 703.820.8074
or via her website www.leadershiphand.com.
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