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March,
2009
U.S.
Library of Congress ISSN 1549-893X
Welcome
to Leadership Hand, a monthly e-newsletter
focusing on the softer side of leadership
to increase your effectiveness more quickly and
enjoyably with bottom-line results.
1.
Evolving Yourself As a Leader
In
Leadership: Defining Moments
(March 2005), I write about the power of defining leadership,
which creates a vision for yourself and a performance benchmark:
"One
of the extraordinary things about language is our ability to make
distinctions--distinctions that define and clarify. We recognize
the value in using language to define our organization's mission,
to create a vision, yet the concept of "leadership"
rarely gets addressed in the same way. By taking the time to define
leadership, you make explicit your values, actions, and outcomes.
You create a personal performance benchmark--one that you can
use to increase your leadership skills and improve your performance."
Recently I was
reading Evolve Your Brain by Dr. Joe Dispenza, who appeared
in "What the Bleep Do We Know!?", a thought-provoking
movie featuring quantum physicists and a few New Age teachers. In
Evolve Your Brain, Dispenza, drawing on medical research,
describes the plasticity of our brains and our ability to actually
grow our mind.
It is the habits
of our body/mind--the thoughts and the chemical baths these create
in us--that keep us in limiting patterns and feelings (see Dr. Candace
Pert's Molecules of Emotion: The Scientific Basis Behind Mind-Body
Medicine [Scribner, 1997]), and keep us from thinking "outside
the box" or "growing our box." In his book, Dispenza
describes the functions of our brain's frontal lobes and how we
can harness their extraordinary functions to break these self-limiting
patterns.
In one of the
later chapters, Dispenza describes how we can build a model of who
we want to become or an attribute we want to live more fully. He
then guides us in the use of daily contemplation to engage our frontal
lobes and turn that mental model into reality.
But before
all this--before defining leadership, before developing a model
of who and how we want to be as leaders, before engaging in his
recommended practice--there is a critical step. Dispenza mentions
it and I want to emphasize it as it applies to evolving ourselves
as leaders.
That step is
assessing the "As Is" state by posing powerful self-reflective
questions framed in curiosity. This serves the same purpose
as any corporate or organizational business process improvement
initiative that has a desired outcome of improved efficiency and
quality.
These questions
are designed to reveal the inherent structure of the habits of thinking,
behaviors, and environment that sustain and maintain your personal
status quo. In effect, these are your strategies for getting
the results you are currently getting--for who you are and where
you are now. Take any area of your life or any aspect of yourself
that you would like to change, and subject it to rigorous inquiry
to elicit useful data:
- What am I
thinking, doing, or being that gets the results I'm getting?
- What is
my strategy (intentional or otherwise) for getting these results?
- How do I
know when to execute this strategy? Or, what triggers it?
- If I had
to teach someone else, step by step, how to get the results I
am getting in this area, what are those steps? What would I tell
the person he must say to himself, think, feel and do?
The next step,
whether you take it within a day or weeks, is to develop the "To
Be" model. Be sure to consider the data from assessing your
current state as informative but not predictive for building your
model.
- Who do I
want to be as a leader? As a person?
- What attribute
do I want to live more fully?
- What state-of-mind
do I want to live in more often?
- Who demonstrates
this attribute or state of mind?
For further
reference, be sure to read Springing
Forth: What Do I Want?
(February, 2006); Creativity:
Disney Had It Right
(November, 2004); and Stumbling
Block to Stepping Stone (July, 2005, and August, 2005).
My next step
is to go to a serene place--a secluded mountain cabin by a stream--to
answer these questions as they relate to leading my life. How about
you?
Beth Hand
©
Copyright 2009, Beth Hand.
Beth Hand,
MBA helps leaders and organizations increase their effectiveness
and satisfaction, now and for the future. She can be reached at
(+1) 703.820.8018 or via her website www.leadershiphand.com.
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